How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 02:08
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Can ringing in the ears be a sign of spiritual awakening?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Making more friends is a goal.
Any straight men had a gay experience in the past? What was it and how did you feel?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How many women have accidentally pooped their pants and became turned on afterwards?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
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Living to your full potential is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What would happen if the Earth stopped spinning for one minute?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Have you ever had sex with your mother-in-law? If so, how was it and did your wife ever find out?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Procrastinates a lot.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
That's it for today.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Are you worried that the 2024 US presidential election will result in a close race?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Ask yourself:
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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
What I need from you?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Why are Americans obese? Is it the food or is it the psychology?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does not procrastinate.
Hangs out with loser friends.
What should I do? I'm 17 and I'm dating a 23-year-old guy.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.